Vāgdāna / Sagāī — the engagement

Vāgdāna means “giving one's word”. The two families formally agree to the marriage, usually after matching horoscopes and fixing the wedding muhūrta. Gifts are exchanged, a tilak may be applied to the groom, and today rings are often exchanged.

It goes by many names — sagāī, roka, nishchitārtham, magni — but the heart is the same: two families publicly committing to each other.

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